My mother-in-law, JEAN MARY FETTES CALHOUN, was a woman who loved her family, held on to old photos and letters, and kept contact (by letter) with all sorts of relatives. The relatives she kept contact with were both hers and her husband’s. She was not one to throw away old photos, but she actually kept a notation on them of who they were. This is very lucky for me, as I try to collect, sort, and keep the stories of all these assorted folks.
Jean’s aunt, HELEN JANE ISAAC (1872-1955), married twice…once to the gentleman in the photo below, RICHARD JOSHUA DIXON (1876-1904) and secondly to DONALD MCFADYEN RAY (1864-1936). Helen married her first husband, who seems to have gone by his middle name, on 4 June 1902 and he died only two years later on 21 Aug 1904 of Appendicitis. How tragic! Apparently, he had been studying for the ministry when he became ill. She must have truly loved him because she kept this photo till the end of her life and she was buried next to him, not her second husband. Helen’s second husband, Donald, was buried beside his first wife, WALTRENA WEIR.
Josh Dixon’s gravestone has a very touching memorial inscribed on it:
A loving husband, Kind and True, Was called to higher services than here. In Love he lived, In Peace he died, His life was asked but denied.
When Helen married Josh, she was 29 and he was 25! They had no children. By the time she married her second husband, Don, Helen was 49 and Don was 64. He had 3 children from his first marriage, they had none in common. They were married for 15 years.
Getting back to the luck of being related to a Genealogical Hoarder…there are many treasures that Jean left for me. There are all sorts of breadcrumbs that she left for me to follow and to add to the family history. I feel incredibly lucky.